The following content aims to bring up a
phenomenon, instead of criticizing certain individuals.
This Monday’s afternoon, I took the shuttle
bus to head to the RV hostel as usual. As the bus approached the hostel, some
guys stood up and they already stood at the front door of the bus before it
stopped. After the door opened, they rushed to the gate of the hostel and then
the canteen. One of them even intended to go to canteen through a shortcut
which is not allowed to be used by boarders.
This happens almost in every weekday afternoon
since May.
That standing up before the bus stops does
not happen if the bus’s destination is NUS. Apparently, the ugly move only
happens when bus sends us to the hostel, because people want to avoid standing
at the back of the long queue in the canteen. We NUS boys have supper in the
hostel which has limited food providers. Thus, it is common to see dozens of
people in only one queue. If people can be in the front of the queue, they can
save some time.
So why do I call it an ugly move? The first
reason is that it is not decent at all. Basically, everyone is supposed to have
an equal chance to stand in the front of a queue as well as the back of the queue,
if we think in a mathematical way. However, there are always some guys who
finish their supper before some other people get the chance to order their
meals. Obviously, they gain the priority at the expense of sacrificing others’
profits. The price is to be running while others are walking and to be standing
while others are sitting. Seemingly not so decent, isn’t it?
The second reason has something to do with the
forming of this phenomenon. I believe at the very beginning, few wants to be
the indecent one. As time goes by, some guys broke the tacit agreement and started
to walk faster. Some other guys considered it unfair and started to run in
turn, which led to a vicious circle, which means the move is so ugly that it
arouses people’s selfishness in their deep within.
Should someone be blamed? My answer is “No”.
No matter whether we are active runners, passive runners or walkers, we human
beings are all selfish fundamentally. I do not think selfish people have the
right to accuse others of being selfish. After all, that ugly move is immoral
rather than illegal. In short, it is all about human nature.
Finally, let me give an interesting assumption.
If we let those runners get off bus first and then everybody walks to the
canteen decently as we are supposed to do, it will not make any difference in
terms of the order of the queue. However, we all know it will not happen. Maybe
one reason is that there are always some guys who are afraid others are more
selfish than them.
I do not expect the ugly move will be
extinct one day. Anyway, this phenomenon reflects many problems which are worth
pondering even after reading my essay.
i think it is very important to behave ourselves. I did not mean what u talk about in the blog, i mean that we did need to care about our behavior so that we can be accepted internationally ! as for this case, i think life should be enjoyed , there is no need to hurry up every minute because it make no sense
ReplyDelete"To be first" is perhaps an innate human behaviour. You show by example gentlemanly behaviour and this suble influence may permeate to others. Remember school and hostle are temporary. Polite behaviour becomes a habit. habit becomes your nature and your nature becomes you.
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