Thursday, 1 March 2012

No more complaints



The week before last week we bargained with Ms. Clara over the vocabulary and at last we successfully decreased the number of sentences that we should write every day. But I still felt unhappy. I was not unhappy for the result of the sentences, but for my complaining attitude towards this case. I felt disappointed by myself and I was afraid of complaining, if I complained once, I might complain a second time ad even a third time and chicken out if I had challenges. We should try our best to reach the goal rather than finding excuses or complaining about the difficulties that we are facing.

A complaining attitude is bad for us to accomplish the task perfectly. And complaint often leads to procrastination because you do not focus on you task but are thinking about bargaining over the task. When I was in high school, my classmates and I also complained that we had so many texts and homework to do. But our head teacher would just tell us that do not complain too much; it would just make you more blundering. You had to know that it was “you want to learn” but not “I force you to learn”, you were pursuing your dreams rather than suffering. Only in this mood could you learn efficiently. That is true, if we think about how we can do our best to do it well rather than complain when we have any challenge, the result will surely be satisfactory.

In fact, there is no need to complain about most of the difficulties. If we think that we have too much homework to do, then we should think about the fact that most of successful persons are workaholics. The founder of “Crazy English”, Liyang, said that he was always busy in speeches and even delivered speeches in several cities in china in only one day, but he still thought that he did not work hard enough. He admitted that no matter how hard he worked, there would still be some more successful persons who worked harder than him. You are not the one who bears the most burdens, and you are luckier than many other people. So why do you want to complain?

Youth is the age of passion and vigor; we cannot throw in the towel without having a try. It is timorous person who will give up without any try. It is our attitude that matters to rise to the challenges. And I hope that I can be a person who complains less and try his best to pursue his dream.

7 comments:

  1. There are a lot of people treat complain as a method to release their pressure. I think some complaints are OK, but if a person complain too much will make people around him feel uncomfortable.

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  2. Youth is the age of passion and vigor. Sometimes we do some things crazy only to fill our lives with more colorful details. This is the most significant.

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  3. ('.') I think now I complain less than before.

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  4. It is a bad habit to do things with a complaint attitude. But it is also a hard thing not to complain. I hope you can really get the rid of the bad habit of complaint.~~^-^

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  5. If you feel unhappy about that, then I should feei guilty... Actually, complaints are something we are born to have, but maybe we should control ourselves not to complain too much. Like a real soldier, a real man~

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