The week before last week we bargained with Ms. Clara over
the vocabulary and at last we successfully decreased the number of sentences that
we should write every day. But I still felt unhappy. I was not unhappy for the
result of the sentences, but for my complaining attitude towards this case. I
felt disappointed by myself and I was afraid of complaining, if I complained
once, I might complain a second time ad even a third time and chicken out if I
had challenges. We should try our best to reach the goal rather than finding
excuses or complaining about the difficulties that we are facing.
A complaining attitude is bad for us to accomplish the task
perfectly. And complaint often leads to procrastination because you do not focus
on you task but are thinking about bargaining over the task. When I was in high
school, my classmates and I also complained that we had so many texts and
homework to do. But our head teacher would just tell us that do not complain
too much; it would just make you more blundering. You had to know that it was “you
want to learn” but not “I force you to learn”, you were pursuing your dreams
rather than suffering. Only in this mood could you learn efficiently. That is
true, if we think about how we can do our best to do it well rather than complain
when we have any challenge, the result will surely be satisfactory.
In fact, there is no need to complain about most of the
difficulties. If we think that we have too much homework to do, then we should
think about the fact that most of successful persons are workaholics. The
founder of “Crazy English”, Liyang, said that he was always busy in speeches
and even delivered speeches in several cities in china in only one day, but he
still thought that he did not work hard enough. He admitted that no matter how
hard he worked, there would still be some more successful persons who worked
harder than him. You are not the one who bears the most burdens, and you are luckier
than many other people. So why do you want to complain?
Youth is the age of passion and vigor; we cannot throw in
the towel without having a try. It is timorous person who will give up without
any try. It is our attitude that matters to rise to the challenges. And I hope
that I can be a person who complains less and try his best to pursue his dream.
There are a lot of people treat complain as a method to release their pressure. I think some complaints are OK, but if a person complain too much will make people around him feel uncomfortable.
ReplyDeleteI agree!
DeleteYouth is the age of passion and vigor. Sometimes we do some things crazy only to fill our lives with more colorful details. This is the most significant.
ReplyDelete('.') I think now I complain less than before.
ReplyDeletewow!That is good!
DeleteIt is a bad habit to do things with a complaint attitude. But it is also a hard thing not to complain. I hope you can really get the rid of the bad habit of complaint.~~^-^
ReplyDeleteIf you feel unhappy about that, then I should feei guilty... Actually, complaints are something we are born to have, but maybe we should control ourselves not to complain too much. Like a real soldier, a real man~
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