Friday, 20 January 2012

Mr.Chang Qizhong-Chen Shuyu-Try to say hello


Ms Yap Swi Neo always tells us that it is an important thing to say hello to the strangers such as the cleaners or other tutors. However, I find it is really hard for us to greet the people who we are not familiar with,but on the contrary,I sometimes are greeted by the strangers.

I remember when the first day we were in the classroom, the cleaner came in .To our surprise, she said "morning "to everyone, but only a few of us replied. How could she say morning to us, we wondered, it was just the first time we met and she even did not know us at all. Another day, I was just sitting outside the room and talking with my friend. Before long, a tutor passed by and said hello to us with a smile.We were so surprised that we did not react immediately.

Why would people like to greet the strangers? In China, parents usually teach kids never to talk to strangers, so we do not say “hello” even to the neighbors on the street. Maybe it is a cultural difference, but I think it is a good manner to say hello to others. It is this behavior that makes people feels warm and happy. To be honest, when I was being greeted, first I felt surprised. But later, I felt pleased.
   
 In the end, I appeal to everyone for saying hello to others. It may be a little difficult to do at the first time, but it worth trying, isn’t it?


PS.Happy New Years.

3 comments:

  1. The most impressive sign when you meet someone is to smile. Smiling will shorten the distance between us by showing the kindness. So let's smile to everyone even if we do not know them!~~

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  2. Smile is like shaking hands.There is always a person who show the gesture first.This needs courage, but both will affected by the wonderful atmosphere!

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  3. I greet to strangers sometimes,but always recieve their puzzled reactions...Then I feel very embarrassed and I do not have the courage to greet the next person.And after several days,I will start to greet strangers again.If I get their response,I will keep doing this.But if not,I will not greet strangers in the next few days again...

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