Divorce

  On Wednesday in Ms.sonail’s class, Zhang Chi and I discussed about the topic divorce. I think this topic is really interesting and the world’s divorce rate in the recent decade is higher than ever, so I intend to write something about the divorce.

  As we all know, the divorce rate is increasing quickly, especially in the generation after 80s divorce seem to be a common thing. The high rate really makes divorce a social problem that draw people’s attention. Most people criticise them for their lack of responsibility but a few of people may think it is okay. As time goes by, the concept of people get changed, and more and more people is open to the matter of divorce which is regarded as a shameful thing in the past.

  There are many reasons that can result in the high divorce rate. I think the main one is the stress of society, work and so on. The rapid pace of society makes people feel stressful and tired. When they go back home, they are more likely to quarrel with their spouse, and the contradiction will be arisen. Another reason is the reality. A marriage must be based on the economy. If a couple does not have enough money to make their living, they will worry about the chore and many things such as buying an apartment, raising the child. When they get into those troublesome matters, most of them may be impatient, so quarrels will happen. Moreover, the consciousness of marriage becomes lighter than before, that is to say, youths do not take marriage serious, maybe some of them treat marriage just as a game. Some younger people just get married in a second and then get divorced after one minute; they do not consider the consequence after the marriage. Of course, some failed marriage may be caused by personal character, improper temperament etc.

  There must be many reasons of divorce, but should be one result, that is hurting each other. The divorce not only does harm to them but also brings a lot of damage to their child. So in my point of view, we have better choose the right person at first, and spend our whole life with the person that we choose. A Chinese old saying goes, hold you hand and grow old together with you. More tolerance and more understanding will make love maintain forever.